Thanks Claire for a great colour along, i love these so much.
Im so sorry to hear of the "problems" your son has, i would keep pestering your GP, and insist on getting him referred to see a child Psychologist or similar,maybe even try to record his behaviour without him knowing ? and show your GP, although that might be difficult, its heartbreaking what you all go through i really feel for you and him and it needs a diagnosis or some kind of help for him to get through these episodes, even just some cognitive behavioural therapy to help him and you to calm and get through the situation, there might be some techniques for him to use when hes feeling anxious ? its worth a try, and speaking to someone else about it might help him to understand what he is feeling and help him.
I feel as if i know you quite well now through yout tutorials etc and i can tell you are a wonderfull mum to both your boys, you are a lovely genuine person and i really feel for you when your going through stuff like this, i hope you can get some answers soon, take care and im looking forward to the next tutorial, sending hugs, Amanda xx